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Help for those who are struggling this holiday season

For those who, like me, struggle with dark instead of brightness at this time of year, please know that our family’s prayers are with you, and that there are people who want to hear from you and help you. If you are struggling with depression or thoughts of suicide:

In the U.S., call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (even if you don’t feel actively suicidal, they want you to call!) at 1-800-273-8255.

The Canada Suicide Prevention Service (CSPS) by Crisis Services Canada, enables callers anywhere in Canada to access crisis support by phone, in French or English: toll-free 1-833-456-4566 Available 24/7. You do not need to be suicidal to access this support!

In Australia, Lifeline is a national charity providing all Australians experiencing a personal crisis with access to 24 hour crisis support and suicide prevention services. 13 11 14 is their confidential telephone crisis support service available 24/7 from a landline, payphone, or mobile.

In New Zealand, call 0800 LIFELINE (0800 543 354) or text HELP (4357) for free, 24/7, confidential crisis support or suicide prevention.

In the UK or the Republic of Ireland, contact Samaritans any time, from any phone, on 116 123.

In other parts of the world, you can find resources listed here.

I hope that this hasn’t brought anyone down, but if even one life is saved, or even one moment of despair is lightened, because of this post, it’s worth it.

May the peace of the season be with you always!

The Becker Family

smiling dog

Becker’s Fear Free Reading Round-Up: December 2021

More great reads this month from Fear Free and Fear Free Happy Homes:

“Training” Collars Don’t Work. Here’s What Does

Frustrated by your dog’s pulling or other unwanted behaviors on walks? Don’t turn to punishment-based training tools such as choke, prong and electronic collars. Our Fear Free handout shares better, kinder, more effective options. Read more…

7 Tips for Holidays With Pets

Holiday celebrations include visits to or from family and friends. Since we consider cats and dogs part of the family, holiday visits that include them require special preparations. Learn more…

How and Why to Use a Ramp for Your Dog

Ramps can be invaluable tools to help make pets–old and young–safer and more comfortable. Learn more…

Professional Resource: How One Veterinary Hospital Turned Things Around for Frightened Patients

Fear Free helps all pets, but scared pets often need Fear Free much more to turn their lives around. Pollard has one patient in particular whom she’ll always remember and says Fear Free methods changed everything for this dog.  Read more…

A German Spitz Dog Looks At A Spoon With Pills On A Yellow Backg

Does your pet need a multi-vitamin? Maybe, maybe not

We want the best for our pets, so we might want to give them a multi-vitamin “just in case.” Here’s what I told a reader about whether or not that’s a good idea.

Q: I want to make sure my pet has the best nutrition. Should I give him a multivitamin?

A: If your dog or cat is already eating a complete and balanced diet — it will say on the bag or can if it is — a multivitamin isn’t necessary. It can even throw off your pet’s nutritional balance. But there are times when a dog or cat can benefit from one, and I asked Joe Bartges, DVM, DACVIM (Nutrition), a board-certified veterinary nutritionist at the University of Georgia, to weigh in on when one might be helpful.

One time is when a pet is eating a homemade diet, he says. Those multivitamins can be recommended by a veterinary nutritionist after evaluating what your pet is eating.

And sometimes vitamin and mineral supplementation can help in treating a disease: “For example, (give) vitamin B12 — cobalamin — with gastrointestinal disease; vitamin D3 — calcitriol — with chronic kidney disease; (and) potassium in cats with low blood potassium due to chronic kidney disease,” he says.

Don’t give pets your own vitamins. The amounts of vitamins and minerals they contain aren’t appropriate for pets — and can even be toxic. “For example, vitamin D content in some human vitamins is high due to osteoporosis, and this could result in overdosing, depending on the vitamin D content in the pet’s diet,” Dr. Bartges says.

Vitamins and minerals may be natural, but they’re not always harmless. And giving too much of anything can cause problems. “If someone gives too much calcium, particularly to a large or giant-breed dog who is consuming a reasonable amount of calcium in a good diet, this can lead to too much calcium intake, which has been shown to increase the risk of developmental orthopedic disease,” Dr. Bartges says.

There’s more in Pet Connection, the weekly nationally syndicated pet feature I co-write with Kim Campbell Thornton and my daughter, trainer Mikkel Becker.

Do you really need a special diet to manage your cat’s bladder stones?

A reader’s male cat has been suffering from bladder stones and wrote asking if that special diet is really necessary. Here’s what I had to say.

Q: My male cat has bladder stones, and the vet is recommending a special diet. It’s expensive! Is there some natural way to treat or prevent the stones?

A: Some conditions and diseases in pets are best managed through diet, and one of them is bladder stones. Peer-reviewed studies have shown the benefit of veterinary therapeutic diets for dissolving these stones.

Urinary stones are seen in 10% to 20% of cats with lower urinary tract disease. In male cats, stones can block the urethra — the tube that carries urine out of the body. That’s a serious medical emergency! Cats unable to urinate can die within 72 hours if the blockage isn’t relieved.

Changing a cat’s diet helps in several ways. Switching to canned food, which is approximately 70% water, helps the cat take in more fluid. And some diets are formulated to produce acidic urine, which is more likely to dissolve struvite stones. Therapeutic diets also tend to be higher in sodium, encouraging the cat to drink more water. That, in turn, dilutes the urine, making it less likely that crystals will form into stones.

Using diet to dissolve stones is less invasive than surgery — the other option for stone removal — but the drawback is that it can take several months to work. Be patient, and don’t undermine it by giving your cat other types of food or treats.

To help the food do its work, scoop the litter box at least a couple of times a day so your cat will want to use it, and make sure he always has plenty of fresh water. Consider getting a pet fountain to increase his interest in drinking more often; lots of cats prefer running water.

Catching this problem early and treating it effectively with an appropriate diet is the best way to prevent it from becoming worse.

There’s more in Pet Connection, the weekly nationally syndicated pet feature I co-write with Kim Campbell Thornton and my daughter, trainer Mikkel Becker.

Marty and QT Pi in matching hats

Maybe not the Thanksgiving message you expected

As I sat down to write my Thanksgiving message to you all, I thought I’d see what I wrote last year. Here’s how I led off:

“I doubt I’d get any disagreement for saying 2020 won’t go down in history as anyone’s favorite year.”

After that masterpiece of understatement, I went on to express gratitude for the many wonderful things in my life despite that tough times we were living in.

Back then, I was still optimistic about beating the pandemic. I had no idea Teresa’s mother and brother would die of COVID. I was still having fun making our silly Facebook series “Bootcamp with QT Pi Becker.”

Then Valdie and Rocky died. The pandemic went on and on. And my lifelong struggle with depression became an almost insurmountable battle.

I’m not going to pretend that rattling off a gratitude list is all we need to do to shake off our blues. I sought the help of my doctor, a therapist, medication, my amazing family, and my faith. Staying on the sunny side of the mountain is a lot of work, and for those of you engaged in this struggle, my prayers and support are with you.

But I do want to mention one thing I will never stop being grateful for: You. Your kindness as we faced our family’s brutal losses, your continued good wishes, your devotion to your pets, your desire to learn and know more about how to help the animals in your life and in your community, your generosity when asked for prayers, shares, and donations… and especially those of you who engage with our family on QT Pi Becker’s Facebook page. You have no idea how happy those exchanges make us all!

As we head into the long Thanksgiving weekend, know our love is with you. Thank you for being in our lives, and here’s to a hope that next year will be good to our weary world!